Happily Ever Afters……

The weekend was extra busy as friends were married Saturday and had a few other events leading up to the wedding. It was a bit unique in taking place on the dive boat as all the attendees were either family or members of the diving community – in some cases, both. The couple have been together for quite some time and like many do, had reasons for waiting to make the decision about getting married.

Not surprisingly, different stories about meetings and marriages came out during conversations. There were plenty of people present whose first marriage didn’t work out and the week before, other friends of ours were talking about how they were high school sweethearts and that was a long time ago. In my novels and especially short stories, I have a mix of falling in love, finding love in unexpected places, coping with divorce, realizing it was time to leave a relationship – all those “highs and lows” that are part of real life.

I’ve posted before about my belief in love at first sight and the opposite side of coming to terms that not everyone finds the kind of love that results in marriage or other long term commitment. As for “happily ever after”, that can also mean different things to different people. Marriage does require the ability to deal with “for better or worse”, in “sickness and in health”, because life can be difficult to the point of almost unbearable at times. Our thirty-sixth anniversary was last month and in case I haven’t said it lately in a post, I am married to one of the most wonderful men in the world. On the other hand, I’ll be having lunch later today with two friends; one of whom divorced decades ago and decided “once was enough for her”.

So, what does the future hold for the newly wed couple? Who knows, but they do seem to have a good start.

Of Storms and More…

We once again were fortunate – although twice is more correct. Hurricanes Helene and Milton went north and west of us with rain and wind here. While there was some flash flooding, a few tornadoes, there was no appreciable damage in the area. Our hearts go out, especially in the “perfect storm” disasters of Tennessee and North Carolina. Many within the farming community here have strong ties because even though we grow amazing things all year, summers are too hot for most produce. Traditional produce like lettuces, tomatoes, corn, etc., come here in the summer from those states. That’s why there are the connections a bit north. In addition, a lot of people who have lived here for years decide the summer heat and cost of living are too much and relocate into Alabama, Georgia, Tennessee and the Carolinas. In Mother Nature’s way of irony, another reason for some who moved was to get away from hurricane areas.

On the municipal side, we send power people and as many first responders as can be spared. These are the times you hear heart-warming and heart-breaking stories and in the instances of those who loot or otherwise try to take advantage, we only hope they will all be caught and dealt with accordingly. We do still have the rest of October to get through and while November is still “in the season”, storms that late are really rare. Of note, that does not mean I am challenging Mother Nature to prove me wrong.

As holidays approach we have some yearly tasks to attend to. I have one of our friends who has a cleaning services and moving/storage company come clean up the exterior of the house and the hardscape in back. When we put the pool in, we took out the little grassy sections from the edge of the house to the fence. Even though we sweep periodically, enough dirt builds up to require power washing and while Hubby has done it in the past, it really is worth the money to hire someone. Plus, it helps out friend’s business.

Making Headway…..

I am in the midst of both trying to catch up from trip and discovering the errors I made in thinking I had closed the loop on certain thing prior to our departure. So far, of the two, both have been recoverable with a dollop of embarrassment.

In reality, in setting the dates I did, I overlooked one other critical task I would need to deal with in September/early October, but back when I set the dates, I thought both the major events of Sept 28th and Oct 17th would have taken place in July and August respectively. Changing those dates due to unexpected issues are actually what jammed things up so badly. While we do intend to plan the annual Art and Artisan Show for the first weekend of October for 2025 onward, the museum fundraiser (if we have one next year) will be held in July. That separates the two enough to give me breathing room.

Hubby continues to post wonderful photographs from the trip and people are really enjoying them. As always, he has to work through the 1,500 he took to decide which ones to actually process. That’s the whole deal of digital cameras where a photographer can take hundreds of shots quickly, then use different software in post-processing. That is the extent of my knowledge of the subject. He plans to do another book of our trip like he did of the trip to Disney. I don’t remember which company he uses for it, but they do a nice job and it’s not terribly expensive.

We have the rain bands from Hurricane Helene. It’s going up the Gulf side and way up into Georgia and Tennessee. That means lots of rain, not much wind for us and at least this time, Houston may be spared. Not sure about my brother and sister-in-law in Mandeville though. Will check on them later this morning.

Rain Continued…..

Mother Nature will do what she will do and for the local people, it had been a dry summer and they need rain. The one good thing is it wasn’t torrential rain. Enough to make it uncomfortable, especially as the temperature dropped, too.

On the other hand, we were on the bus for half the tour yesterday morning and then part of it was in a magnificent church.whose name I have to look up.The architecture of Budapest is beautiful and Hubby was able to get a number of photographs. We also managed to get into a coffee house for cake and coffee with a few minutes to spare. For those who may not be familiar with the origin of Starbucks, the founder was inspired by the coffee houses of Europe and wondered why we couldn’t have something similar. I’m not certain of the name of the type of cake we shared, but it was thin layers of a yellow with milk chocolate icing in between and sort of a crunchy caramel topping.

We came back to the ship for lunch and waited a while. The rain did stop although the temperature dropped a little more. It was heavily overcast and we did go out to go up and walk across the famous Chain Bridge. It was built in the 1800s as the first permanent bridge across the Danube linking the Buda and Pest sides. Hubby got more photos as he is posting on Facebook and Instagram.

Dinner feature was chicken paprika; a very different version of what we are accustomed to. It was a thin sauce with paprika of course and diced red and yellow peppers. Budapest, somewhat like Paris, is famous for lighting up at night and Hubby braved the cold and went up top to get some wonderful photographs.

We transfer to the hotel in a few hours although we won’t be able to check in until 3:00. Hoping for a break on the weather to allow us to walk around.

Catching Up……

In the week since my return, it’s been fairly jammed as I dealt with the most critical things first. Everything was productive and it was worth the time spent. In the 2.5 things I was able to accomplish for myself while gone, I completed the post-beta read changes to Shades of Remorse and my primary editor for scuba-involved books is available. I sent her the manuscript yesterday and she’ll be able to start next week. Hooray! My intent is for the book to be out the end of October/first part of November.

Sequencing in this one was tricky as was the use of a triple point of view (POV). As I mentioned in some previous posts, the long gap since my last book was I have never tackled a triple POV. There are different ways to do so and I don’t care for a couple of those techniques. It took a while for me to decide and quite frankly, it is complicated. Sequencing was difficult as well and in fact, even after the beta-read, something still felt “off”. I figured out it was the sequencing of four chapters toward the end. I had to move those around just a bit for the right flow. I’ll see if the editor responds in the same way.

Unlike most of my books, there is no view point from the “bad guy/woman” and so the reader doesn’t have the same insight as I’ve provided in the past. There are numerous linkages to “pick up on” as Detective Bev Henderson is faced with her first cold case as the story opens with finding a skeleton in the water. After the dead man is identified, there is more than one viable motive, but with forty years elapsed, there is no supporting forensics to help. Much is set against the backdrop of an old motel converted into apartments where four older women reside; one of whom is the widow. Added to the mix is the sudden appearance of the owner’s niece whom she had never met due to the estrangement of the two sisters.

You can see why this novel is especially complex.

Headed Home….

Am at airport lounge to relax a bit before my flight which is supposed to be on time. Another somewhat difficult morning for my sister, although not as bad as the other day. She is getting around well on the walker and allegedly PT will start in a day or two. The Occupational Therapy evaluator is due at noon to set that up. It still concerns me she was discharged a week ago and no therapy of any kind will begin for more than a week. She has been doing some of the exercises they did in the rehab facility and as I said, on the walker an increasing amount over the past few days. Here’s hoping there are no complications.

Now to get caught up on all sorts of tasks. The thing is we are going on the long trip in less than three weeks; the trip we booked back in February. This time frame was supposed to be my time to take care of multiple things before departure precisely so I would not be jammed getting ready. The best laid plans and all that…

Progress and Other

Marginal luck with PT in the sense of the evaluator came and was thorough. The OT evaluator did make an appointment for noon Monday. The woman who was supposed to come help give a shower Thursday never contacted us and when I called Friday, there was a surprised response. No, she didn’t contact us. Nor did she on Friday, but I didn’t call back as it doesn’t seem to do any good. The paid service woman will start Monday night at 10:00 to stay until 6:00 each morning. She will provide the shower which hopefully will help relax the muscles as well. Since they are a paid service, that might go more smoothly.

Moving around with the walker is better as is certain other things. We made a slight adjustment to allow for ease of dressing that seems to be working. My sister was also able to stand the entire time she was brushing her teeth for almost five minutes. This is a good thing.

More Delays….

In the manner anyone who has been through this will recognize, there is yet another delay in getting the home health support started for my sister. “The scheduler is out” is the same issue 24 hours after our first call. The promised wheelchair for yesterday was in fact delivered although it was 8:00 p.m. A nice young man who had two more stops programmed.

On the other hand, the supplemental private-pay care needed for a while responded almost immediately with a text (might have been email) verifying the conversation and had set an appointment to come this morning. A very pleasant young lady who is in fact recently moved to Houston. She speaks highly of the company and if she is typical of their staff, that is a positive indicator.

Out of Rehab…..

The usual long time to get paperwork done to discharge my sister. Successful movement into car and then home into fancy recliner. It has the correct kind of back support for her. The assessment for home care won’t happen until tomorrow though instead of today which means actual care probably won’t be until Wednesday. The wheelchair that was supposed to be delivered today apparently will also be tomorrow. Fortunately, that is okay. There are a couple of new medications and those are being picked up now. There are some other things to work out and we’ll see how all that goes.

 

 

Another Day of Prep….

We are splitting time with my sister today. Her husband went in early and I am going in a while for an afternoon visit.

I had a chance this morning to go on one of the walking paths my sister told me about and I can really understand now why she loves this area. The path – actually trail – goes in different directions. The one I took was mostly by the small lake which also has part of the golf course on the other side. The houses along the lake are nicely landscaped as can be expected. The houses are across the paved path so don’t have direct access to the water, but a lovely view and about twenty steps from the back of the lots to the water. No swimming and no way to put a boat in, but there is catch and release fishing with numerous spots to comfortably fish from the bank. Only other joggers, walkers (to include dog walkers of course) and cyclists were out. The incredible amount of mature trees are a benefit except in the situation of the storms which as I mentioned recently wreaked havoc with massive tree falls and downed power lines for more than a week. There is still a lot to clear out and will probably take at least another week.